Writing a More Effective Profile

You have joined this site, and you would like to get the most out of your experience. Now what? Begin by posting a terrific profile. Your profile is your "advertisement" to other members, not only selling yourself and all the wonderful things about you, but also letting them know what is attractive and important to you. A great profile begins with a good-looking photo. Make sure your photo is clear and gives a hint of your personality. It does not need to be a professional photo. In fact, many people are more attracted to an "every day" shot than to a glamour photo. It is important to let potential respondents see as much of the "real you" as possible in your photo. Once you have your photo, begin crafting your actual profile. Tell the world what you are looking for in a potential mate, and be as specific as necessary since you are trying to narrow the respondents to those with whom you have the most shared interests. It wastes their time and yours to be too generic in your descriptions. Describe yourself honestly, and be honest about your likes and dislikes, to save a lot of time and trouble. You want any potential respondents to have an idea of whom you are, where you are going, and what you want out of life and a relationship; so give your profile careful thought before you add it to the site. A great profile will give you an advantage in capturing the attention and curiosity of the type of person you are hoping to attract. So do not be haphazard in your approach to creating your profile.